Straight Men

As an upfront disclaimer, this posting is not about straight men in porn, as they may or may not fall into the categories I'll be mentioning.  That being said, I completely don't understand why gay men are so infatuated with straight men.

Personally, I've never had the least bit of interest in straight men as a simple matter of respect for them.  I don't want to be with someone who isn't into me (in my personal life, I recognize it's going to happen on set... its just part of the game)  Now before I go further, I do want to credit Devon Hunter for helping me realize some of these things that I hadn't even thought of.

Imagine what your supposed encounter with a straight man will be. IF you get a straight man in bed, it'll most likely be some random, drunken, or weird encounter.  No straight man is going to willingly hook up with a gay man.

What might an encounter consist of?  Personally, I am not down with sucking a guy off with no type of reciprocation at all.  A straight guy in the real world isn't going to want to suck you back (and in the instance he does, won't know what he's doing and will end up toothing your cock)

If it came to sex, a straight guy is going to want to top you, and till treat your ass like a vagina.  Now, never having had sex with a woman, I can't speak from exact experience, but I can say that by simple positioning and anatomy, fucking an ass is vastly different from fucking a vagina.  On top of that, they won't know how to fuck in such a way that's enjoyable for you.

In the EXTREMELY rare event that you can get a straight boy to bottom, imagine how that's going to turn out.... tell me how much straight men know about anal hygiene?  I can only imagine how messy that even will turn out to be.

I will grant you that in porn, it can be a fun fantasy, but even remember, that in porn, the scenes I've shot where there is a "straight" guy, he's always been played by a straight guy.  And in my experience, the legit straight guys in porn, know how to have sex with men so these things aren't an issue.